Bazen ne yaparsan yap mutluluğun formülünü bulamazsın, bazen de nedensiz birşeyler mutlu eder seni...
Yüksek sesle dinlediğim her şarkı mesela, slow bir müzik yada eğlenceli bir dans parçası farketmez o anki ruh halimi anında değiştirebilir. Büyük bir kahvaltı masası, yöneticilerimle yaptığım esprili spor sohbetleri yada arkadaşlarımla konuşurken ve tatlı yerken abarttıkça abartmam, içtiğim kahveyi püskürtmeme yeter de artar bile. Havanın güzel olması, renkli birşeyler giymek, güzel fotoğraflar yakalamak... Öyle çok şey var ki aslında insanı mutlu eden.. Önemli olan da kendi adınıza küçük şeylerden mutlu olmak ve bunu sevdiklerine yansıtabilmek.
Eşimden dostumdan gelen zamansız bir fıstıklı çikolata yada ''çikolata-kaymak-karamel'' bir dondurma ise benim en büyük mutluluk formülüm.
100 madde buldum insanları mutlu eden, tek tek örneklemede bulundum kendim için ve cidden hepsiyle ilgili çok güzel anılarım varmış benim de...
Şimdi, şuanda mesela 3 madde belirlesem 23, 41 ve 50 beni anlatır mutlu olma nedenlerim arasında...18 ve 29 ise vazgeçemediklerim listesinin en üst katında yer alır...
Mutlu olmayı hakedenler, şimdi sıra sizde, 3-5 başlık belirleyerek haftasonu planınızı okurken bile hazırlayabilirsiniz. 'Kıskanç-fesat-nankör' üçlemesindekiler de gidip yatıp uyusun, bidaha da kalkmasınlar :) Şimdiden bol şans, mutlu ve hoşça geçirilecek vakitler dilerim...
#1 You Have a Ceiling
Be thankful for the roof over your head.
#2 Music
Who doesn’t love music?
#3 Wine
Fermented grapes. They’re the best.
#4 Cheesy Sci-Fi movies
At least you’re not being attacked by radioactive lizards.
#5 Going to a Museum
No matter how bad you feel, there’s always something to cheer you up here.
#6 The Polar Vortex
Isn’t snow pretty?
#7 The End of the Polar Vortex
Isn’t it great to feel warm again?
#8 Hamburgers
I don’t need to explain this one.
#9 Hotdogs
Mmmmm…hot dogs….
#10 Baseball
The best place to get a hotdog.
#11 Books
The best place to escape reality for a while (sometimes we all need an escape).
#12 Television
Cable TV. Awesome.
#13 Free Wi-Fi
Even if you can’t afford it yourself, just about every coffee shop has free internet access (McDonald’s does, too).
#14 Easter Candy
Cadbury Eggs.
#15 Fireworks
Colorful displays of affection.
#16 Kissing Someone
Even if you don’t get Frenched all year, a kiss on the cheek is well worth feeling happy about.
#17 The Smell of Your Favorite Food
Smelling your favorite food cooking is one of things that make you happy no matter how sad you are.
#18 New Shoes
New shoes.
#19 A New Haircut
Change it up!
#20 Friends
Lean on your girls.
#21 Family
Chances are, their drama is worse than yours.
#22 Ladybugs
Admit it, ladybugs still make you happy.
#23 Ice-cream
Chunky Monkey, banana Splits, hot fudge Sundays….
#24 Bubble Baths
Things that make you happy should always include bubbles.
#25 Hugs
*Free Hugs
#26 Boating
Even if you’re not on a boat, just watch them.
#27 Going to the Casino
Spend a day gambling away your cares.
#28 Going out Dancing
It’ll make you happy, honest.
#29 Chocolate
To be combined with the wine.
#30 Meditating
If nothing else, you’ll take a nap. Napping is something that will make you happy.
#31 Yoga (or Not Having to do Yoga)
Either one…
#32 Planning a Vacation
Even if you’re planning for the future, start planning now.
#33 Smiling at Strangers
They smile back!
#34 Video Games
Sometimes, you just have to kill something. For that, video games will make you happy.
#35 Caramel Apples
Carnivals, funnel cakes….
#36 Hockey
Men on ice-skates with sticks, beating on each other. Oh yeah.
#37 Getting a Pet Pig
If it’ll make you happy…why not!
#38 Or a Pet Puppy
They smell so good!
#39 Maybe Even a Pet Kitten
They’re so adorable!
#40 Children Laughing
Children laughing will make you happy, and if they’re crying be happy they’re someone else’s children.
#41 Sunshine (Yes, it Will Come Back)
Warmth, coconut tanning oil…
#42 Thunderstorms
Sometimes, a hard and heavy storm is one of those things to make you happy.
#43 Flowers
Buy yourself some flowers.
#44 New Perfume
Go on, you deserve it!
#45 Making New Friends
Find new places to hang out.
#46 Going Ice-Skating
Believe it or not, it will make you happy.
#47 Pretty Underwear
Your naughty little secret.
#48 A Good Date
A good date will make you happy.
#49 A Bad Date (Aren’t You Glad That’s Over!)
So glad that’s over!
#50 No Date (Single, Like a Boss!)
Hah! You can watch whatever movie you want!
#51 Cookies
Packaged and ready to eat.
#52 Finally Being Able to Buy That New Dress
A new dress will make you happy.
#53 The Holidays from 2013 are Over
Thank heavens.
#54 The Holidays of 2014 are Coming
They’ll be better.
#55 Snow Angels
When’s the last time you made one of these?
#56 New Curtains
You should redecorate.
#57 Spending the Day in Bed
Sometimes it’s the little things that will make you happy.
#58 A Warm Cup of Cocoa
With whipped cream.
#59 Coffee
Coffee.
#60 Strawberry Flavored Lip Gloss
You know you lick it off.
#61 Trying Something New
Anything at all.
#62 Warm Comfy Socks
Your feet will be thrilled!
#63 Postcards
Send someone a postcard.
#64 Candlelight
For no particular reason at all.
#65 Eating at a New Restaurant
Of course you want to try blowfish…right?
#66 The Wind Blowing Your Curtains
Pretty things to make you happy.
#67 Chinese Food
You can never go wrong.
#68 Pizza Delivery
I love the pizza boy.
#69 Glitter Glue
Go crazy. Sparkle something!
#70 Sunflowers
They’re giant flowers, how can that not make you happy?!
#71 Riding a Roller Coaster
Without getting sick.
#72 Running Around Your House Naked When Nobody Else is Home
I’m freeeee!!!!
#73 Thrift Stores
The process will make you happy!
#74 Watermelon in the Summer
Messy and cool.
#75 Hot Soup on a Cold Day
Messy and hot.
#76 Getting Flirted With
Yep, you’ve still got it!
#77 Too Much Butter on Your Popcorn at the Movies
Indulge, it’ll make you happy.
#78 Getting a Tattoo
Go for it, you only live once!
#79 Singing in the Car
It’s okay, everybody does it.
#80 Text Messages
Don’t you just love it?
#81 Unexpected Calls from Your Crush
Yay, he’s thinking of you!
#82 Finally Getting Over Your Ex
It will make you happy to be over that jerk!
#83 The City at Night
Just look at the lights glow!
#84 Going to the Ballet
Relax, enjoy the arts.
#85 Random Acts of Kindness
Things that make you happy often involve making others happy.
#86 Butterflies
I dare you not to smile.
#87 Free Stuff
It’s free!
#88 Feeling Happy for No Reason at All
Just go with it.
#89 Bubble Gum
You’ll feel like a kid again!
#90 Cooking Something New
Even if you mess up, at least you tried.
#91 Birthdays
Don’t think of your age…think of your presents!
#92 Fireflies at Dusk
Always something to be happy about.
#93 Gummi Bears
These will make you happy. Just eat a bag.
#94 Posting Things on Pinterest
It’ll keep you occupied, that’s for sure!
#95 Ordering from Amazon
Stuff delivered to your door. How much happier can you get?
#96 Drooling over Chris Hemsworth
He looks good in a cape.
#97 Finding a New Hobby
Go find things that will make you happy. Like drumming.
#98 Cookies Right Out of the Oven
Not from a package, but warm and gooey…oh yeah.
#99 Penguins
Come on, you know watching them on TV makes you happy.
#100 ….Still
No Zombies, Still no zombies or something like that!